Valued Action, May 2023
Recommit to valued action. Not perfect, just engaged and committed to aligning actions with values.
Brave
- Take measured doses of discomfort to expand your comfort zone.
- Speak up.
- Be vulnerable.
Loving
- Slow your tempo.
- Respond rather than react. Intensity and reactivity breed more of the same.
- Reframe. In time, in space.
- Change your tone from critic to coach.
- Give Benefits, freely and easily.
Opening
- The ocean, not the waves.
- Give everything a warm welcome.
- Respond in ways that open up choices.
Connecting
- Everything is connected.
- Ask questions about, and focus on, what connects not what divides.
- (Re)connection, seeing interdependence, is more effective than strength or dominance.
Added 2023-05-07, last updated 2023-05-29.